Turmoil Behind Happiness

Happiness everywhere, putting a mask, wrapped in sorrow. A harsh reality, we keep smiling but alone from inside, looking for a person to drain out our salty ocean, full of some good and bad experiences from our past.

Every time, whether making plans to spend a joyful time or thinking otherwise, talking with ourselves only, something that our soul only can listen to. Perhaps, found a few loyal shoulders, but flowed with the flow of time; just because of their obligations or sometimes due to an unknown reason that we try to know but desperation all the time. Sometimes, loneliness is the necessity but reality is different; happiness comes for a short span. And, in that short moment, we live a life. Cheerful with tiny rain drops, but for how long, when everything has an expiry date. Most beautiful presents are always wrapped with hurdles, and it is said that problems are natural after every joy. Being neutral in every situation is the key to happiness, we will have to accept this fact. Unfortunately, we are not ready to accept the truth because it is human tendency. 

Sticking to the bad memories of aftermath and sharing your painful time with reliable shoulders; people will sympathize with you and will try to forget you that bad time, and if you changes yourself you will realize that what you have lost. You have lost actually the moments that you spent over-thinking of your problems.  

In search of happiness, we cover miles, reaches to the forts, mountain peaks, even to the bars, disc, entertainment events; just to get rid of our boredom. Being engaged in activities doesn't define involvement of intangible state into an activity, whether one is just stick to something for refreshment. After covering incessant roads, journey completes only when we learn to be happy in every state. Detachment is something different to be aloof, being a part of every act, but always neutral; obtaining inner-peace the way pass through the situations. Why I always prefer to be introvert, plenty of reasons are there. Every self-centered or introvert, get a person surely in his/her lifetime, this happens definitely and get a chance to change his/her vision how they see this world and things, and believe me, you will likely be cheated to learn a lesson that your inner voice and vision that grew with the time, was accurate. If, you see the people meeting you without any reason, stand by with you every-time even when their intuition don't allow them, you are really blissful to have them. This happens to make you meet with the real world where the persons being with you like a sheet anchor, are sometimes try to feign. 

Connection and separation are the two sides of a coin, and unfortunately, both bring about a lesson, a pain to show you the reality. Look around yourself, every soul is alone and every soul is in affinity, it is just a matter of perception. If you learn to enjoy your own presence & togetherness, always happy and feel cheerful to enjoy the present moments at fullest. 

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Reading is the Necessity

I remember, I had read a phrase somewhere in a Spiritual Book that "Jaisa Saahitya hum padte hain, Hum waise hi bante hain". Translation: "We become exactly, the kind of literature we read".

We, Humans, learn from the consequences and experiences of others, actually from the people having greater exposure of the things than us. It is not possible for anyone to follow someone all the time, as we have different lives. And veterans are too busy to write each and every experience and piece of knowledge. Unfortunately, when they share their views and make thoughts immortal in form of words, we are busy with our useless gadgets and we feel impassive to read their works and lose a chance to see subtle ocean of knowledge. If I blame only youth, this will be partiality because what we learn, it depends on what we see around us. Good habits of our superiors always make a good impact on our choices and vice-versa. There was a time when people used to read books in their free time, now hardly we get time to spend alone or free, in case, if we get, try to waste it either with an idiot box or with any gadget connecting us with a virtual world using Internet. Youth used to follow their elders, their habits, hobbies & every activity was the source of learning, but now our elders are busy & can't afford to spend their time with books, so how we can set an example for ourselves. Apart from this, Even the newspapers are vanished by the e-media, latter shows unhealthy and untrue facts, but people enjoy, so its in trend. What I feel, printed news bulletins give better reports as compared to spicy and equivocation. 

Besides, If I talk about reading habits of people, I often find this as a hobby in oneself. No doubt, technology is the essence of man's life nowadays, though I believe it is fruitful only if it inculcates something good in us. An enthusiast would have achieved if he had used it accordingly. I appreciate the practices if one is using the gadgets to read e-books rather than wasting one's time. Even parents are forced by children to get a high speed connection with a saying that "It is the need of my studies", and how our guardian can refuse any demand linked with our studies. I strongly in favor of people who says that reading habits have reduced in children. Even, this society calls a child, book-worm, but there is no harm in being, as its not harmful to charge our mind from a source that is free.From our initial stage, we are learning, why? Because it is a necessity to grow, to earn, to understand how to deal with the situations and our reactions. Now, when we have grown up, its not that we should stop learning. From the very last day when we completed our studies, we never dare to read a Book, "how long we will study", this is the common question which we ask from ourselves. Its time we started enjoying life, so why I shall hold a book. But, true happiness can be attained only when we will have vision towards the situations, ups and downs of life; and that we can understand when we read the experiences of ignited minds. 

At last, I would like to say, we can choose our hobbies and interests as per our liking, but something that is the drill and source of energy, is "reading" only. Its never too late to start something good.

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Sukun Utar Aaye...

Jhulasti is rooh ko, chhanv mil jaaye,
Jis pal ise, tu nazar aaye...
Meri soch mein, jis pal tera hosh aaye,
Aur Bechaini mein meri, sukun utar aaye....
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Daayra meri chahat ka, kuchh hissa kam ho gya,
Jo hosh ki in salaankho mein, main madhosh ho gya...
Aalam kuchh ye rha, intezaar hi naseeb mein,
Har waqt hum marte gye, jo guzri wo kareeb se...
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Mujhe fursat kabhi de, jo aks tera,
Be-parwah us waqt ka, hum dil tod aaye...
Meri soch mein, jis pal tera hosh aaye,
Aur Bechaini mein meri, sukun utar aaye....
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Imtehaan ise jaankar, sab sehta chala,
Hai khata fir dono ki, na koi tujhse gila...
Fir darmiya dilo deemag mein, ranjishe aisi hui,
Yeh puchhta hai sare aam, is ishq se kya mila...
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Kya hisaab ho, is baat ka,
Zara koi to bataaye...
Aur Bechaini mein meri, sukun utar aaye....
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Intekaam

Barsaat ki boondo me, mere ishq ka paigaam hai,
Hai kasam mujhe bhi mohabbat ki, ye aakhri intekaam hai...
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Zaayza kabhi le, kya haal ho rha hai,
Kya yaadein hum samete, sab waqt khoo rha hai...
Gar rakh bhi le sanjokar, hum kinaare kuchh yaadein,
Ashqo ka samandar, har kinaara dhoo rha hai...
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Khoo chale hum khudko, ye uska anzaam hai,
Hai kasam mujhe bhi mohabbat ki, ye aakhri intekaam hai...
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Be-fizul sab harqat, har zarra hai hairat,
Dil jaan se bharosa, fir wohi kyu be-gairat...
Wo har baat har lamha, tera fareb batata hai,
Sach kahu to kai baar, marne ko dil chahta hai...
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Meri fazar me meri gazal me, har jagah tera naam hai,
Hai kasam mujhe bhi mohabbat ki, ye aakhri intekaam hai...

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kab tak...

Ummed Kisi ke aane Ki, ek anjaan dastak,
Intezaar hi zaari hai tab se, ye Bata kab tak...
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Tere saath Ki ummed me, ek Umar kat gyi,
Bheeg jaate tar batar, Barsaat ruk gyi...
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Mita chale nishaan tere, rang reh gya haath me,
Sab jaan gye dard Ki wajah, Tera jikr Jo hua, meri baat me...
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Tanhaayi meri mash-hur Hui, is jameen se falak tak,
Intezaar hi zaari hai tab se, ye Bata kab tak...

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Seven Phases in One Sided LOVE

1. Unnecessarily waking, laziness in routine work and an aimless journey, this is the life till you feel the magic. Really, life was like an effete before meeting you. Never before, had I noticed my looks, changed the way I talk and most important, smiled while talking. Love is the only crop where after sowing the seed, you don't need nourish it, God enhances and cares, after all it is the another form of worship. This is the initial stage when you start liking someone, actually you did nothing, it happens automatically. In this stage, you try to show him/her your charm, try to impress by your talks and you find the ways to interact with them.


2. Getting a glimpse of him or her, circulates the new blood in you and gives you many reasons to enter into a fresh fanciful world with full of new feelings. It is time you started finding new ways to be with them with a genuine reason. We try to create situations, and always busy in to be free to ponder. I define Love in two ways, first one, Love of first sight, other, it grows with the passage of time and togetherness. But, remember, it is a single thing, tributaries may flow separate but the destination is always same. Every action which you take, seems that it is happening without much efforts like a river taking stones with it, cutting them, shaping them and finally into an abysmal end.


3. Only question killing you from inside, whether she/he is alone or in a relationship. And believe me, If you have started loving, u'll die to ascertain this in the beginning, and of course, you must. After all, it is the need of the hour for you, it is better to be mute rather than being a thorn between them. A strange question will pop-up in your mind, what, if she/he tells me lie or hide something. This 'll be cheating, but, you have better trust them. If, she is preferring to commit a Sin, let her do. This is the phase when you become a spy, try to compare their statement with the reality. But, the reality is what, you realize you are in Love. The best way to get to know about his/her relationship status is, just believe, and blindly believe. Ask yourself, do you love truly? Yes! Then, don't worry, if she wanted to stop you, she would have stopped you at the same time when you asked this question to her.


4. I call this phase, the most memorable, if you really loves. Someone said very well "If you love truly, you will die daily", and this is cent percent true. Affection which grew inside you, will not let you sleep properly, will not let you breath smoothly and always thinking, what is next. You are living in an other world, checking your mobile thousand times within a short span, reading old texts, recalling your day activities when you are in bed, and thinking of alternatives of your actions which could be much better, shit man! A mild pain, but you are in comfort, but the pain is incessant, so do something to heal. Simple, just go and propose to them. Really, simple! It is not as simple as it seems. Waiting for a perfect moment? Journey of Love can be divided into two parts, before confessing your love and the later part. And until you propose to him/her, you are enjoying the most beautiful phase. You are in a great dilemma, as much as questions are brought forth by your heart as much as stars are there in the sky, and your brain has no answer to any question, because it has nothing to do with the matters of heart and love. It is a fight of heart, dear brain please stay away, yes. Most difficult situation, but there are just two ways, either create a situation or wait for the moment. Hesitation is obvious in asking for a meet, but no option. She may deny but, not always, not in every case. And, yes, she couldn't.


5. Finally, the most awaited day comes. Looks, smile, style, gift, Rose, fragrance etc etc, spinning my head. But, no suggestions for this day. Just be simple, natural and genuine. He/she wants to see you, the real you. Believe me, your planned endeavors, determination and every strategy is going to be vanished. Every planning is in vain. To open your heart is too difficult to speak like in day to day with them. So, don't plan your speech, just go impromptu. She is sitting in front of you, you will start diverting her mind, finding a topic to kick start the real movie. And this need a strong power. Oh!, I am invulnerable, nobody can defeat me, please do not let this think your mind. Otherwise, it will ruin your moments. Just let your heart think today, let it decide, let it speak, all is well. You collect your entire power, blink your eyes, and create your own phrase.


6. Sorry, for not completing my sentence in the above para, as I told you, there are two phases, now you are in second one, because you have already proposed to. Expectation of the same thing in return, doesn't define Love, albeit, you are just willing to see them happy and accepting everything, whether it is Yes or No, is Love. But, the reality is that "Why the answer is NO", this question is going to kill you. Just try to read her. Sometimes, somewhere, we'll have to accept our defeat. Defeat? this is not an appropriate word of failure in the subject of love. Getting the same, which was unexpected, a dream beyond my desire. But, her reply sank me in despair, and I am in hypophrenia, I am not disconsolate due to her answer against my desires, but I am thinking how I will live. This is the time when most of the people go on the wrong track. Actually, you have three ways, either you sink yourself in pensive sadness or just realize and accept the truth and prefer to move on. And the third one, the most rejected one by the persons who were not actually in love, they were just attracted by the charm or something else. I preferred to choose the third one, I'll wait, wait and incessant wait. A very harsh truth, she just refused, she didn't tell whether she loves me or not. And, this is the only reason which make me spellbound to choose the third way. It is too rare to find true Love in today's world, but I'll change your perception, surely. Love beyond expectations, and you will say and realize, "That was the way to Love".


7. God bless us with humanity after 84 lakh births, and I meet you incidentally, or perhaps God wanted, I was in love, and we are not together, isn't it painful? Yeah! A lot for me. But, I respect her vision, her customs, and most important, that reason. Some works always remain undone, always incomplete, afterall we have nothing to do with the decisions of the creator of this world. I promise myself to love you forever, unconditionally, till I am, you are not somebody else's, what if I love you afterwards, I will not do a sin. There will always be a corner in my heart with dignity, care and lots of love for you. Just be happy, smile but remember, somewhere, someone is still living in the moments which you gave him, and yes, he is still waiting for you and loves you truly and unconditionally...

I admit that this post went personal at last, but believe me, this was the only medium to share with someone; for me.

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Tips for electing a right candidate

As the countdown has begun, stage is all ready to see powerful rivals fighting for a single seat. All the parties are busy in promoting their campaign. Sometimes, it seams that this is not just a competition for the top post between the Ministers, but also between the supporters. With the expansion of the media, political parties have taken advantage to reach the every aspect of the society for promoting themselves. Even the promotional stages are making the people too confuse to select a right leader. New voters get affected by the false promises or promotional events, on the other hand, some prefer to choose a wrong person for the sake of a few penny. Here are some tips for all which will help you decide to choose an appropriate and eligible candidate to be in power:

1. We should try to know about the candidate in terms of his works, vision, social background etc. Mostly rich but undeserved persons advanced in politics just because of their high approach and social power. He/she should be aware of the demands and required remedies of the society.

2. Preference should be given to right person rather than a political party. Conventional parties attract a mass because of their previous works. Sometimes it is seen that a wrong person get success in getting ticket from a well-known party. In this scenario, innocent people don't get success in utilizing their precious vote. This is totally injustice with the constitutional voting right.

3. We, humans, like to take decisions in hurry and with aggression. But, a leader must be cool, polite and debonair. Often, we get attracted with a speech, promising aggressive remedies. An aggressive leader may break down the peace and government. A suave and light hearted is assumed the perfect one.

4. This is not as easy as we think to vote a right person. Our preference should be for a highly educated person. But, many times it has seen that a person with the basic education but with high temper of thinking is also capable in handling the situation as compared to a educated one. So, we are in dilemma.

I hope, this will surely improve your voting decision. Most important, please do not let your precious vote waste. Voting is our constitutional right and we must utilize it and be a part of the economic improvement and growth.

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